Thanks again Bill.
First of all let me say that this is not an easy question to answer, but that does not make it invalid. In fact i think each and every one of YOU should answer this question as well: “what makes a real difference in your life?” That means you too Bill.
I am not religous. I believe that there is an energy in this world that we can all feel. Some call it God, Jesus etc… I like the annonymity of simply an energy that flows through the ground into the trees, through the air and into us. I think different people feel this energy in different ways and that is the way it is supposed to be. Discussions on this energy should be really open and listened to, not Judged. It is not anyone of our places to judge people or their beliefs. How does this make a difference in my life?
Well, it is important to me to listen. I listen to people, i listen to the world and the energy in it. Many times you can sense someones mood just by being in their presence and this sense should tell you how they are in life. It should guide you in the way you interact with them and how you choose to speak to them. In order to truly sense this, you must clear your mind of any preconceived ideas about the person or the situation. To get specifically into training related material. If a client comes in the door already distraught (i can usually tell, and it usually obvious mid workout where there head is) maybe its not right for them to get a physical workout. As much as i sometimes hate carrying the burdens of others, i see the lightness on their hearts when they leave the gym. Regardless what was accomplished physically, the emotional fitness was improved so i call it a success.
In order to feel this energy i was talking about earlier, it is very important NOT to rush through life. Somethings i do to slow things down:
#1 Put the cell phone down and close the computer and leave the house! We get so caught up in constant contact that it is liberating to leave this stuff and get away from its clutches.
#2 Look to the sky and soak up some energy (or vitamin D). Its important to do this especially in the AM as the sun helps us get our day started with energy. But its also important to do it when you are feeling stressed. Tap into that good energy floating around.
#3 Take a deep fucking breath! Put everything down, close your eyes and take a deep breath in through your nose and out through your mouth. Still feel tension? take a couple more. Feel that? Thats life!
#4 Go wander around. Look at stuff, listen to people and talk to people.
#5 Appreciate something. Art, movement, the trees, a person…
Thanks again Bill. Your turn.
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